SEX If you love each other, is it all right ? or should you wait until you are married? I’m a virgin. Is there something wrong with me? Question like this abound among youths. Nevertheless it is the exceptional young person who has not had sexual intercourse while till a teenager and why not? You may ask. After all, it is only natural to want to feel loved. And when you are young , your passion can be powerful to the point of distraction. Some may even say having sex proves your manhood or womanhood. Not wanting to be viewed as odd, you may thus feel under pressure to experience sexual relations.
Effects of sex 1. Aftereffects Even the bible times , some engaged in premarital sex . an immoral woman might invite a yung man to indulge , saying “do come , let us drink our filled of love until the morning, do let us enjoy each other with love expressions.”(proverb 7:18) the bible however warned that pleasure enjoyed today can cause tmmorrow. Solomon said the aftereffect from her is as bitter as wormwood, it is as sharp as two-edged sword. (proverb 5:3,4)
2. Guilty and disappointment. In the wake of immoral sex, a youth often feels exploited or even humiliated most youth feel bad after such activity. Many youth have further found premarital sex to be bitterly disappointing. The result? Feelings of guilt and diminished self-respect. It was a big letdown, no feelings of good or warmth of love as it suppose to be . a girl named sarah admitted: “I hated myself for my weakness and I hated my boyfriend infact the sex relation we thought would bring us closer ended our relationship. Yes, having a premarital sex you have cross a line over which you can never go back. 3. Promiscuity. Premarital sex lead to promiscuity with some youth due to lack of guilty conscience about the act they go out for sensual gratification, seeking sex with a variety of partners. They believe they are functioning with little purpose self contentment. Research makes us to understand that promiscuous youths reported low self-esteem. Proverb 5:9 Those engaging in immorality gives to other their dignity. Sexually transmitted diseases often result from premarital sex. Solution to premarital sex. Safeguard your heart. Colossian 3:5, Psalm 119:11, proverb 13:20 Avoid pitfall when dating. Jer. 17:9, Matt. 15:19, Proverb 23:19 Set limits. Proverb 13:10 Avoid tempting situation. Song of Solomon 1:6, 2:8-15 Know your limitation. Proverb 24:10, Hosea 4:11 Say no and mean it Have a chaperon Friendship with God
Effects of sex 1. Aftereffects Even the bible times , some engaged in premarital sex . an immoral woman might invite a yung man to indulge , saying “do come , let us drink our filled of love until the morning, do let us enjoy each other with love expressions.”(proverb 7:18) the bible however warned that pleasure enjoyed today can cause tmmorrow. Solomon said the aftereffect from her is as bitter as wormwood, it is as sharp as two-edged sword. (proverb 5:3,4)
2. Guilty and disappointment. In the wake of immoral sex, a youth often feels exploited or even humiliated most youth feel bad after such activity. Many youth have further found premarital sex to be bitterly disappointing. The result? Feelings of guilt and diminished self-respect. It was a big letdown, no feelings of good or warmth of love as it suppose to be . a girl named sarah admitted: “I hated myself for my weakness and I hated my boyfriend infact the sex relation we thought would bring us closer ended our relationship. Yes, having a premarital sex you have cross a line over which you can never go back. 3. Promiscuity. Premarital sex lead to promiscuity with some youth due to lack of guilty conscience about the act they go out for sensual gratification, seeking sex with a variety of partners. They believe they are functioning with little purpose self contentment. Research makes us to understand that promiscuous youths reported low self-esteem. Proverb 5:9 Those engaging in immorality gives to other their dignity. Sexually transmitted diseases often result from premarital sex. Solution to premarital sex. Safeguard your heart. Colossian 3:5, Psalm 119:11, proverb 13:20 Avoid pitfall when dating. Jer. 17:9, Matt. 15:19, Proverb 23:19 Set limits. Proverb 13:10 Avoid tempting situation. Song of Solomon 1:6, 2:8-15 Know your limitation. Proverb 24:10, Hosea 4:11 Say no and mean it Have a chaperon Friendship with God
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